taking the sexal path to awakening
You can take the sensuality principles and the techniques presented her and just enjoy them, create better sex with them and leave it at that.
The statement I just made above is false! I wish I could say that you…to let you off the hook, to keep sex simple for you. But the deeper truth is this: The better you get at sex, the more skilled you get at generating and moving sexual energy in your partner, and the more receptive and surrendered you become at allowing your lover to move your sexual energy, you will not be able to avoid the spiritual component of sex.
This is due to laws and principles that are as simple and direct as the laws of plumbing! Energy moves! The more you move that energy, the more you clear your system and allow passage to that energy, the more that energy is going to travel throughout your system. And energy traveling throughout our system and hitting all the centers is essentially what spiritual experience and advancement is.
So, there is no getting away from the bind that to have good sex is to have spiritual sex, and in order to use sex as a spiritual path you need to acquire skills to give and receive good sex.
Your only out is this: If you don’t want sex to become a spiritual path, then just keep having bad sex.
If you are serious about using the sexual path as your path to awakening, then give this path the same respect you might give to any other more traditional path. Don’t be half-ass about it. Don’t be casual about it. Bring reverence to it. Seek guidance towards it. Be serious about your practice. Expect frustrations and loss of faith, and have a plan in place for grappling with these challenges.
Above all, don’t try to walk this path on your own or just with your lover. You won’t make it! The 3rd Chakra Circus, (all your esteem issues) alone will eat you both alive.
The number of challenges, the number of lies, the amount of self-deceit and distractions are so numerous along the sexual path, that if you don’t try to contain it within the structure of ritual and community, your odds of getting lost in the wilderness are very high.
RITUALIZE YOUR SEX!
- When you enter sex, enter it within Ritual Space.
- Have mentors holding space, mentors whom you trust to keep you on the straight and narrow.
- Have a sniper’s rifle out for all the shenanigan’s of the Esteem center attempting to appropriate the energy of the sex center for its own ends.
- Make all the challenges that show up along the sexual path your rough stone with which to scrape off your ego.
- Practice with a community of seekers who are on the same path and who are resolved to keep each other honest.
In the absence of this ritualized container, the sexual path will readily devolve into slack indulgence and hedonism. You will become one of those people that mainstream people legitimately look upon with suspicion, assessing that you are only using all your spiritual chatter just to cover up run-of-the-mill sexual decadence and addiction.
Presence & Good Sex
Arousal Curve 1
4 Strokes for 4 sections of the Arousal Curve
Outer Female Anatomy
Physical Exploration & Communication
Formality, Caliber & Apex characteristics
Coming in Agreement
Arousal Curve 2
Calling Out Strokes
Body to Body connections
Chakra to Chakra connections
Master & Surrender Archetypes
Stroking Session as Master & Surrender
Balancing Energies between Surrender & Master
Arousal Curve 3
Downstrokes & Caliber
6 O’ Clock Sweep
Anchoring Apex into Contentment & Graciousness
Transitioning from Surrender to Master
Form & Chaos
Holding Form. Moving into Chaos.
Masculine & Feminine Principles regarding Form & Chaos
Male Anatomy Exploration
Up Strokes & Down Strokes for Men
All-Fours Stroking Posture
Men Accessing Their Chaos
Internal Female Anatomy
Standing Stroking Posture
Masculine Form Position
Feminine Form Position
Throat to Pussy Connection (Using Ball-Gags)
Women Stroking From Chaos
3 O’Clock / 9 O’Clock Stroke
Pain as Down Stroke
Pain as Up Stroke
Leaning Back Posture
Rope Bondage & Formality
Pain & Caliber
Women coming into Erotic Agreement with Each Other
Spanking & Impact Play
Deep 12 O’Clock Stroke
The Yes/No of Eros
Creating the Yes/No Agreement
Emotional Play & Caliber
Pain & Apex
Humiliation & Caliber