YOU CAN TAKE THE SENSUALITY PRINCIPLES AND THE TECHNIQUES PRESENTED HER AND JUST ENJOY THEM, CREATE BETTER SEX WITH THEM AND LEAVE IT AT THAT.
The statement I just made above is false! I wish I could say that you…to let you off the hook, to keep sex simple for you. But the deeper truth is this: The better you get at sex, the more skilled you get at generating and moving sexual energy in your partner, and the more receptive and surrendered you become at allowing your lover to move your sexual energy, you will not be able to avoid the spiritual component of sex.
This is due to laws and principles that are as simple and direct as the laws of plumbing! Energy moves! The more you move that energy, the more you clear your system and allow passage to that energy, the more that energy is going to travel throughout your system. And energy traveling throughout our system and hitting all the centers is essentially what spiritual experience and advancement is.
So, there is no getting away from the bind that to have good sex is to have spiritual sex, and in order to use sex as a spiritual path you need to acquire skills to give and receive good sex.
Your only out is this: If you don’t want sex to become a spiritual path, then just keep having bad sex.